Back in October, I purchased a rug for our living room. I struggled with the decision because I always tell myself that a new toy won't make me happy. The rug, however, has changed our family life more than anything else. We play together so much more in the living room. We are together more. Now that Christmas is behind us, I took a look at the children's rooms and assessed how well they were working.
Last week I rearranged my son's bedroom. He never played in it like my daughter played in her room. I cleaned up and out all the toys, sorting them back into bins by type. I moved the rug out of the walkway and into the center of the room. I left a little hidden corner of sorts for an inviting place for him to play. I hung artwork. I set up a CD for music. I set puzzles and lacing cards on a little table, ready for playtime.
The toys are stashed in that armoire (or under it, so it appears) - tinker toys, legos.. standard stuff. This has made all the difference in the world in his ability to entertain himself while I have morning lessons with my daughter. He has far more one on one time than she does and has never really learned how to be on his own. Clean up is also super simple. Having the toys neat and available makes them far more inviting. None of this is new and exciting, but it has changed our days.
The CD player, in particular is key. He enjoys all kinds of music, but when I'm desperate nothing delights him more than the Imperial March from the Empire Strikes Back (or one of them, I don't know). All my hopes of raising a little pacifist were destroyed when my brother introduced my son to Star Wars.
He also has a
small chalkboard that he can write on either in his room or at the table. He practices his letters and draws pictures of the beach - and big! scary! monsters!. He is at a great age for tactile sorts of activities and I'm trying to encourage that.
I'm enjoying this phase with him more than any other. My parenting style with my children is almost entirely opposite because of their temperaments. This preschool phase with him has been a new and more relaxed adventure. We still have several issues - he hates it when I read to my daughter and stands beside us and screams and cries the whole time. He is very demanding at bedtime. I am never able to read to the two of them together without everyone losing their temper. I'm not complaining, just being honest because it's really easy to write here and pretend that everything is always peaceful.
It's almost nine and I still haven't made breakfast - time's up here. Happy Thursday!
Update: Here is a
link to the cards
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