July 4th, 1999 (Boston, Massachusetts) - The day after my sister's wedding. We headed downtown early and thought about getting a good spot to watch the famous fireworks show. Instead we walked around the city. I remember a church or two but mostly I remember how insanely hot it was. Boston in July can get every bit as hot as Texas in July. I sat on a blanket that evening with my husband. There was a Japanese family beside us. At one point I offered to take their picture. There was an obvious language barrier, so this was done with smiles and gestures. They gathered together and I snapped a shot. I wonder if they remember me when they look at the photo. After the fireworks, there was no train running to my sister's neighborhood, so my husband and I ended up walking from the nearest stop. There were steep hills and plenty of them. It was after midnight and still very hot. I was so annoyed about the trains, but that dark walk in the still, quiet streets stands out very poignantly in my memory.
July 4th, 2000 - I was 31 weeks pregnant. My parents had a barbecue to celebrate the 4th. I took a long hot walk with my sister around the neighborhood. Later that night I awoke to contractions one minute apart and spent a few tense minutes reading through all those stupid pregnancy books and finally, hesitantly called my doctor. I spent the next few days in the hospital, confused. The nurses would come in and sit on my bed and watch Wimbledon with me. I have no idea why I was watching Wimbledon.
July 4th, 2004 - 35 weeks pregnant this time and on "limited activity". My almost 4yo daughter was scared at the neighborhood fireworks, so I carried her 2 miles back to the car on top of my giant belly.
July 4th, 2008 -
I broke my toe. So I stayed home from fireworks and instead hobbled around cleaning the house. That was awful in such a trivial way. Every day this summer I awake with a prayer of thanksgiving that my toe is not broken.
July 4th, 2009 - Mass with my family! The four of us again at the neighborhood fireworks. My husband and I enjoyed 80's rock from a really incredible band. I teared up during the fireworks thinking about my deployed brother. I took far too many photos of fireworks for my expat sister who probably won't see any this year (and mom, who will be home tomorrow!). Again, I walked back home with a four year old on my shoulders rightly assuming that walking 2 miles with forty pounds on my shoulders cancels out any ice cream sundae (and cobbler!).
Outside my window right now, it is raining. How wonderful!
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